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Facilitated Group Experience · Live Online via Google Meet

The Unmothered Circle™

8 Women · 8 Weeks · Live Online

An intimate gathering for eight women ready to understand what they inherited, tend to what they did not receive, and choose what they carry forward.

Individual work can take you far. But there is something that happens in a room of women who carry the same wound, a kind of recognition that no one-to-one relationship can replicate. You do not have to explain yourself here. They already know.

You may recognize yourself here

She was there.
But she was never really there.

You grew up feeling invisible in your own home. Not because you were unloved necessarily, but because you were never truly seen.

You learned early to manage your emotions alone. To not need too much. To be the one who holds it together so others do not have to.

You have a persistent sense of not being enough, in your relationships, your parenting, your work, even when the evidence says otherwise.

You find intimacy difficult. Being truly known by someone feels dangerous even when you desperately want it.

You have done work on yourself, read the books, maybe even done therapy, and you understand the wound intellectually. But something in you has not yet shifted at the level you know it needs to.

You are tired of carrying this quietly. You are ready to be in a room where you do not have to explain yourself from the beginning.

If you read that and felt something shift in your chest, you are in the right place.

What the Circle is

Not a support group.
Not a lecture.
A facilitated container for real change.

The Circle is intentionally designed for a small group. With no more than eight women, every person has room to be known, participate honestly, and receive meaningful guidance throughout the eight-week experience.

The Unmothered Circle is a facilitated coaching and educational experience led by Amelia Mora Mars, founder of MomConnections. It meets weekly for eight weeks, live online via Google Meet, wherever you are.

The group is intentionally small, a maximum of eight women, so that every person in the room has space to be known, not just heard. This is not a place to sit quietly in the back. It is a place to do the work alongside women who understand it from the inside.

The group experience itself is part of what makes the Circle different. Being witnessed and understood by women who recognize this experience creates a kind of connection that is difficult to find elsewhere. You begin to practice showing up differently, with more honesty, self-trust, compassion, and choice, alongside women doing the same work.

How each week works
Watch

A short 8 to 12 minute teaching video from Amelia introducing that week's concept.

Reflect

Heart Work that moves the teaching from intellectual understanding into your own story and patterns.

Gather

A 60 minute live Circle with Amelia and no more than seven other women to explore, process, connect, and integrate.

The Next Unmothered Circle

The current Circle is closed. Future dates will be announced to the interest list first, and each Circle will remain limited to eight women.

Also Included

Each participant receives a private 30-minute integration call with Amelia near the end of the program: space to reflect on what shifted and what comes next.

Format

Eight weekly 60-minute live sessions via Google Meet. The schedule for the next Circle will be announced with enrollment details.

Where We Meet

Live online via Google Meet. Your personal join link is sent upon enrollment, same link every week.

Investment

$850 in full or three monthly payments. The Unmothered Circle is coaching and education, not psychotherapy.

Attendance

Live sessions are not recorded. Being there each week is the only way to get the full experience. Please protect all eight Wednesday mornings on your calendar.

What if My Life Is Already Really Full?

Eight weeks is not nothing. A woman with a full life, a job, kids, a marriage to tend, does not have hours to spare on something that will not move her forward.

Each week asks for a short teaching video, time with your own Heart Work reflections, and one live hour together on Wednesday mornings. The reflections are not extra credit. They are what make the live hour work, the place where your own story meets what you are learning. Most weeks, this comes to under two hours total.

If your week truly has no room for this right now, this may not be the season. The Circle will run again.

From understanding to carrying forward

The Unmothered Circle™
Eight Week Journey

The Unmothered Circle does not ask you to blame your mother or stay stuck in the past. Across eight weeks, you use the MomConnections approach to understand what you did not receive, follow the thread beneath present-day patterns, and choose what you carry forward.

01 Follow the Thread™

Why does this work matter to me?

You go beneath the surface reasons and discover what you most deeply want to change, protect, and pass forward differently.

02 The Imprint of Comfort

What did I learn about having feelings and needs?

You explore memories of comfort and emotional responsiveness, and what happened in the moments you needed someone.

03 The Role I Learned to Play

Who did I have to become in my family?

The good girl, the achiever, the caretaker, the peacekeeper, the invisible one, the strong one. You trace how that role still operates in your life today.

04 What I Learned About Love

How did early connection shape what I expect from relationships?

Attachment, closeness, rejection, approval, and emotional availability, and the ways you learned to hold on to connection.

05 Mothering Myself Differently

What do I do with what I did not receive?

You move beyond insight toward re-mothering yourself, responding with compassion, protection, permission, comfort, and boundaries.

06 When the Old Pattern Gets Activated

Why do I still react when I know better?

You recognize triggers and automatic responses such as overfunctioning, guilt, people-pleasing, shutting down, controlling and rescuing. You are introduced to the Stay Steady Sequence™ as a way to pause before repeating the pattern.

07 Becoming Emotionally Safe

What do I want to offer differently in my relationships and motherhood?

Emotional presence, repair, listening, and boundaries, and letting your children, and yourself, be fully human.

08 What I Carry Forward

What ends with me, and what begins with me?

Integration and self-trust. Drawing from the Legacy Repair Loop™, you identify what you are keeping, what you are releasing, and what you intentionally carry into the next generation.

Who this is for and who it is not

This group works because
everyone in it is ready.

The Unmothered Circle is a carefully held space. Its power comes from the fact that every woman who enters it is stable enough to show up for others, not just herself. This is not a crisis group. It is a growth-focused, facilitated experience.

This is for you if

You are emotionally stable and functional in your daily life even when things are hard

You have some awareness of the mother wound and its impact on your life

You are ready to hold space for others, not just receive it yourself

You can commit to showing up consistently for eight weeks

You are open to being seen and challenged, not just validated

This is not the right fit if

You are currently in active crisis or acute emotional distress

You need more intensive individual support before you are ready for group work

You are not yet able to be present for others in the room

Your schedule does not allow for consistent weekly attendance

You are looking for a place to vent rather than a place to grow

If you are not sure whether this is the right fit, reach out before enrolling and Amelia will talk it through with you. If individual therapy is a better first step, she will tell you honestly, and can often help connect you with the right support.

Amelia Mora Mars, founder of MomConnections
Your facilitator

Amelia Mora Mars

Amelia is the founder of MomConnections, a mom coach and a mother of ten. Her work is informed by decades of experience helping women understand attachment, inherited family patterns and emotional connection. The Unmothered Circle™ brings that experience into a coaching and educational setting for women raised by emotionally unavailable mothers. It is not psychotherapy or a substitute for individual treatment.

She is also a daughter who was raised by an emotionally unavailable mother. She knows this wound from the inside. She spent years performing strength, protecting everyone around her, and staying quiet about her own needs. Somewhere in the middle of that, she knew she wanted her children to grow up certain they were accepted exactly as they were, not for what they achieved or how well they held everything together.

She is also a mother of ten and a woman who has done this work in her own family. She brings professional experience, practical guidance and lived understanding into every Circle she facilitates. Nothing you bring into the room will require you to explain the mother wound from the beginning. She knows it from the inside.

Founder of MomConnections
Board Chair, Childhood Matters · Ventura County
Mother of Ten
Questions About the Circle

A Clear Picture Before You Decide

Is the Unmothered Circle therapy?

No. The Unmothered Circle is a coaching and educational group, not psychotherapy. Participation does not establish a therapist-client relationship and the Circle is not a substitute for mental-health treatment.

Who is the Unmothered Circle for?

It is designed for emotionally stable women who were raised by emotionally unavailable mothers and want to understand how inherited patterns continue to affect their relationships, self-trust and motherhood.

What happens during the eight weeks?

Each week includes a brief teaching video, personal Heart Work reflections and one 60-minute live online Circle. The curriculum moves from understanding early emotional patterns toward self-trust, steadier responses and intentional connection.

How many women participate?

Each Circle is limited to eight women so that every participant has space to be known, contribute and receive meaningful guidance.

Are the live sessions recorded?

No. Live sessions are not recorded. Privacy and consistent attendance help create the trust necessary for an honest group experience.

How will I know when the next Circle opens?

Join the interest list to receive the next dates, schedule and enrollment details before they are announced more broadly.

The Next Circle

The current Circle is closed.
Your next step can still begin here.

Join the interest list to be the first to receive dates, scheduling and enrollment details for the next eight-woman Circle. Sending an inquiry does not obligate you to enroll.

Future Circle dates will be announced when scheduling is confirmed.
Each group remains limited to eight women.

You are more than what shaped you.
And you get to choose what you carry forward.

That is what the Circle is for. If you have questions before joining the interest list, Amelia is happy to talk.