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Helping moms confidently communicate and connect with their daughters

Any of these sound like you?

An Anxious Mom who’s spent several tough years trying to be calm, consistent, and confident yet you can’t quite put the pieces together to connect to your daughter.

A No-Nonsense Mom who’s a can-do woman at work and life but struggling to emotionally bond with your daughter without controlling, yelling, and sounding like  your own Mother.

A Lost Mom who’s still carrying around the pain of not receiving the validation as a little girl. And now you’re ready to heal and grow to be emotionally available for your daughter.

A Tween Mom who is nervous about the upcoming teen years and you recognize that you need more support and skills to build a stronger bond.

IF SO, THEN WE’D BET ONE OF THESE IS ALSO TRUE…

A lack of Boundaries, Self-Love, Confidence, Connection, and Support have been holding you back from growing as a woman and Mom.

You see, every little girl’s life begins with a hope, to matter, to be noticed and adored… to play an irreplaceable role in the world.

Yet, many women struggle to give themselves the love and attention they want and need because it was not modeled to them.

IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT THAT YOU DIDN’T RECEIVE THE LOVE YOU NEEDED AS A CHILD, BUT IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE IT DIFFERENT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER.

Daughters Are the Future Mothers!

Moms spend hundreds, thousands of dollars on coaching for their kids yet don’t invest in the support that they need.

You deserve the love that you so freely give to others! 

Because, most often what has been missing from your own life is MORE of you!

MORE support, self-compassion and satisfaction.

MORE meaningful connections, communication and confidence.

MORE peace, patience, and purpose.

MORE love, laughter, and living a life story that YOU get to decide!

Personal 1-1 Coaching

Personal 1-1 Coaching

This personalized 6-month 1-1 coaching program with Amelia is just what you need to help you create your best personal and family life!

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Work With Me

Let's schedule a Discovery Conversation. Let's chat about your hopes, dreams, and goals. I want you to feel confident that this program is a great fit for you.

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Group Coaching

Group Coaching

This 12-Month Group Online Coaching program includes access to weekly trainings, weekly accountability emails, and a private Facebook community.

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What you really need is the skills and support to become the best you! We’ve created and perfected every detail of our program to work for you, leaving you time and freedom to build the family life you'll love.

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Hi, I’m Amelia! I’m a Mom of 10, Mom Coach and Marriage & Family Therapist.

I’m often asked if I had always wanted to have 10 kids. People are shocked when I tell them that I actually didn’t want to have any kids at all. My “Mami” cooked, cleaned, and kept a nice home, but emotionally I couldn’t get close to her. What I learned  is that not all little girls experienced a Mom that was emotionally available to them. And I know I’m not alone because I hear different versions of this same story from my clients…

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  • “…Working with Amelia has forever changed and impacted my life… most importantly I found my “voice” and what it stands for. I have learned things and talents about myself that I never knew.

    I also now have the courage to speak up if I don’t like something. I’ve learned that my voice matters and my happiness matter. My well being has not only benefited my children’s life but most importantly mine. I’m thriving and that reflects on my business.

    I’m beyond proud of myself …”

    – Marisa Enriquez
  • When my second oldest daughter would come home with an accomplishment from school… for the rest of the day she would seek words of praise over and over and over again. About the third time, I would get upset with her. Working with Amelia opened my eyes, ears and heart to a whole new world of understandings my children as individuals…these tools have brought me closer to all four of them in ways I never could have imagined.

    -Adriana Martinez

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I am guilty. 🙋‍♀️ I am guilty of trying I am guilty. 🙋‍♀️

I am guilty of trying to be the Perfect Mom, and I know I'm not the only mother out there who has ever felt pressured by society and family members to fit this 'perfect' mold of what a mom 'should' be.

The pressure to deliver our babies naturally without any pain relief, to breastfeed, to whip up delicious baby food, to provide enriching extracurricular activities, to always have a clean home... and on and on it goes.

Has anyone else struggled with the need for approval or to people-please? I know I have, and that stemmed from my own experiences with my mother growing up. It's okay if you struggle with this - so many of us do! But eventually, we all have to make the choice of learning to deal with our need for perfection and approval, not just for our own sakes, but for that of our children too.

The worst thing about trying to live up to this image of the 'Perfect Mom' is that we inadvertently raise kids who also struggle with perfectionism. The sad truth is that perfectionism is contagious, and it's up to us to take our lives back so we can be the women and mothers we always wanted to be. 💕

Now I want to hear from you! What have you felt pressured to do or be as a mom? I'll go first - when I was a young mom, I felt that I had to dress up my daughters and style their hair just-so for church every week, and it wasn't until later that I came to the realization that I was prioritizing the approval of others over my connection with my girls.

Do you have a similar story or example? Share with me in the comments. 👇

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As a young mom, I was too strict. Too exacting. To As a young mom, I was too strict. Too exacting. Too impatient. They were habits I learned from my childhood. I was always too uptight and anxious as a kid, so I learned to seek approval by doing.

I recall times when I was relaxing and my mother would say, "What do you think, you're a millionaire?", or "Do you think, you're a decoration?"
 
Those words shaped me. I would get up from relaxing to do work. 
 
My mom heard similar words growing up, and she passed them along. And while I didn't use those exact words, I valued busyness over playfulness.
 
As a young mom, I wanted my kids to actually want to be with me, but I was never emotionally close to my mom as a child. I wanted to be, but she didn't know how. And I didn't know how either. 
 
Working on myself was the best thing that I could ever do for me and for my children. While I know that I will never be the perfect mom (there's no such thing!), I found the courage to be completely honest with myself so that I could finally start to heal. And once I began to heal, I was able to finally break that cycle!

I'm here to tell you that you have the power to break the cycle too! Will it be difficult? Yes. Will you have to reopen old wounds? Definitely. Will you have to face your fears and be vulnerable? Absolutely. But you will finally heal your heart and become the mom you always wanted. 💛

Comment down below or send me a DM if you're ready to begin your own journey toward breaking the cycle. You are not alone, and I am here to encourage and support you every step of the way!

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Being a mom of twins means that I've been asked so Being a mom of twins means that I've been asked some interesting questions over the years. 🤣

My daughters, Michelle and Charmaine, were definitely a surprise, but 29 years later, I couldn't imagine my life without them!

We've had our share of rough patches, and I'm here to tell you that whatever you're feeling or going through as a mom, I can promise there are SO many other mamas out there who are feeling exactly the way that you do - so this is your reminder that you're never alone!

And if you're a mom of twins like me, I am right there with you, girl! It may seem like double the trouble sometimes, but it's also double the blessings! 💕

Leave a 💛 in the comments if you needed to hear this today, and if you're a mom of twins too, comment down below with the weirdest questions you've been asked about having twins! I'd love to hear them!

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✨ The Motherhood Mindset ✨ I recently had th ✨ The Motherhood Mindset ✨
 
I recently had the pleasure of joining @deb_cummins_stellato on her incredible podcast, @think_courageously, and I am so excited to give you a brief taste of all that we discussed!
 
Our focus was on the limiting beliefs that many women have around success and motherhood, and the courage it takes to allow our children to fail while giving ourselves permission to grow and let go.
 
What limiting beliefs have you identified in your own life? Share with me in the comments, and don't forget to check out the Think Courageously podcast!

#10xmomcoach #10xmom #momconnections #momcoach #coachformoms #breakthecycle #motherhood #motherdaughter #emotionallyunavailable #reclaimyourheart #community #thinkcourageously
Mom life = best life. 💛 Here's a throwback to Mom life = best life. 💛

Here's a throwback to when all my kiddos were young. They're not so little anymore, but I will always be their mom!

I know that being a mom is one of the hardest jobs out there, and it's easy to get hung up on our failures and shortcomings and everything that is going wrong.

But I invite you to pause for just a moment and think about the good: what is one of your favorite things about being a mom?

Share with me in the comments!

#10xmomcoach #10xmom #momcoach #coachformoms #momlife #breakthecycle #motherhood #motherdaughter #parenthood #emotionallyunavailable #reclaimyourheart #motivation #community #onlinecommunity #supportsystem #momconnections #connectingmoms

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